Modern Day Perspectives of Relationships & Marriages
IT IS ABOUT TIME THAT THE IGNORANT BUFFOONERY AND ENTITLEMENT STOP 🛑
Modern Day Perspectives of Relationships and Marriages.
Many people read the Bible regarding relationship and marriage today, without an awareness that in both Old and New Testament times, traditions were established that determined the roles of both male and female, as well as the marital expectations of both male and female.
THIS WAS UNDERSTOOD AS MARITAL EQUITY! The traditions functioned as the culture that was carefully thought out by Moses and Elders based on the MUTUAL AGREEMENT.
These traditions were not imposed upon anyone. They were established by the Covenant that Israel voluntarily entered into. This means that both male and female VOLUNTARILY entered into these roles.
These roles and expectations were NOT God’s commands for mankind without question. A covenant is a contract, a mutual agreement to terms and conditions.
CHRISTIANITY TODAY NEEDS TO WAKE UP FROM THE DRUNKEN STUPOR OF SELFISHNESS AND MANIPULATION.
(If we really look at the doctrines of the Western Christian church and its impacts on the world objectively, you can say that westernized Christianity has been the catalyst for a lot of social issues that exist today. If Christ resurrected humanity, then just as the nature of His Spirit is Self-Existent, and therefore Self-Determining, so is the nature of the spirit of every single member of humanity.
This means that if you’re imposing expectations on people and they push back, they are not disobedient to God, they are withstanding your oppression.)
In the New Testament literature we see the evidence of the Apostle Paul interfacing with non-Jewish communities that didn’t have these traditions as their heritage.
So what does he do? He DOES NOT IMPOSE THE TRADITIONS established and mutually agreed to by the people under Moses’ Covenant.
He said that He preached the Gospel as a Priest.
Why does he say this? He says this because the Law of Moses (the character of Man in the Garden) indicated that the priority of the Priest, or at least one of their priorities is TO ESTABLISH AND UPHOLD EQUITY. INTEGRITY AND EQUITY.
This means that the Apostles, including the Apostle Paul did not try to impose Jewish traditions on the uncircumcised people, instead they identified the culture that they were interfacing with and brought it into equity.
THIS IS THE MAIN REASON that. what is written in the New Testament cannot be taken literally as Divine Laws. What is written is carefully taught out instructions to stop inequity among the people.
Reining it back to Relationship and Marriages today.
Modern Day Perspectives of Relationahips and Marriages Part 2
Due to the fact that in the westernized world there are no predominant traditions that have been intentionally agreed upon mutually, pointing fingers and imposing expectations upon your spouse is OPPRESSIVE.
Christian Leaders imposing roles and expectations upon genders respectively is OPPRESSIVE.
WESTERN CHRISTIANITY HAS BECOME THE RELIGION OF PHAROAH.
Neither men nor women are special. The same Spirit that is in the Man, is the same Spirit that is in the Woman.
This is why the Apostle Paul asserts that there is no male nor female, all are one in Christ.
I think it necessary to assert the following.
🚫 Gentlemen, not a woman in Heaven and Earth is EXPECTED to serve you. That is, to cook for you, clean for you, nor make your babies and be a house wife for you.
You do not have the right to have that expectation of any woman:
✅ UNLESS SHE HAS MUTUALLY AGREED TO YOUR PROPOSITION.
🚫 Ladies, not a man on this planet is EXPECTED to serve you. That is, to provide for you nor protect you, spend money on you, be gentle with you, romantically woo you, nor be mindful of how emotional you are.
You do not have the right to have any expectations of any man:
✅ UNLESS HE HAS MUTUALLY AGREED TO YOUR PROPOSITION.
(((In the absence of mutually agreed upon traditions and cultures, MUTUAL AGREEMENTS ARE THE MECHANISM OF EQUITY.)))
What does this mean?
It means that if you are really and sincerely in relationship with the God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob, who is the same God and Father of the Lord Jesus Christ, RELATIONAL or MARITAL EQUITY must be your priority.
That is, you and your spouse MUST SIT and have a mature conversations concerning what each others expectations are and make mutual agreements concerning the culture you would both like to have between each other.
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I would encourage you to start with questions such as: (((AS BASICS TO START)))
- What is your definition of a relationship or marriage?
2. What are your expectations in a relationship or marriage? (That is the things we would like done as our norm AND the things that we do not want done).
3. What is our relationship or marital priority?
4. What is your short and long term visions for your relationship and marriage.
5. How do you define:
Agape, friendship, flirtatious, sexual, and companionship love in a relationship or marriage.
(And repeat numbers 1–4 for each category of love).
THEN USE THIS AS YOUR RELATIONSHIP AND MARRIAGE CULTURE.
🟣This is the Ancient Context and Concepts of the Priests, Prophets, Apostles and even Yeshua.
THE FOUNDATION OF THE THRONE AND THE EARTH IS INTEGRITY AND EQUITY.
❇️ Have you ever asked these questions in your relationship or marriage?
❇️Have you ever even asked yourself these questions?
🛑 If not, you might be the oppressor in your relationship or marriage, as a result of no personal responsibility.
🛑 You may have been giving your partner the responsibility to provide you with a relationship or marriage that makes your happy.
🛑 You are not that special because everyone is special.
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